The Job Experience, Tech Support: Year #4, Part 1

Financial Changes

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The Black Hole of Money Suck

A lot of people think that Your Money or Your Life is a personal finance book.

Although they’re not wrong, it is an oversimplification.

Finance is located under an umbrella of themes centered around control and personal empowerment.  Readers are challenged to answer a fundamental question:

What do you want to do with your life?  What makes you happy?

It also, at the same time, makes  a key observation:

The vast majority of people do not love their jobs.  Their job is therefore not what they ‘want’ to do with their life.  So these same people often blame their jobs for getting in the way of pursuing whatever it is that they derive real joy and satisfaction from.  

From there, it follows that you probably want to quit your job.  But you can’t.

And why can’t you?

It’s because you need the money.

And why do you need the money?

Aha!  This is the critical question.  The only way to properly respond to this question is to track your spending.  You must figure out where your money is going.

I spent the next month tracking all of my spending.  At first it was absolutely terrifying.  I’ll never forget what it’s like to peel open the sticky mess of glued-together paper that represents your financial life.  You start pulling the sheets apart, and gunk sticks to your fingers and you can’t get it off without using your other hand to scrape the adhesive, so you wind up with two dirty hands instead of one, and then you’re going to the bathroom and running hot water while looking in the mirror and seeing tears of regret running down your face because you’re thinking about the time you bought the entire NKOTB discography totally as a joke while you were out drunk one night.

What, it wasn’t like that for you?  Just me, then, huh.

Damn.

At any rate, once I had a bunch of data to look at, it turned out that I needed to make money to buy a lot of crap that I didn’t use or even want.  Inconceivable!

One nice thing about adopting a frugal lifestyle from the starting point of the habitual spender is that the first round of cuts are typically quite easy to make, because there’s so much fat on the meat.

The big ones:

  • My restaurant and bar spending was out of control.  I rarely ate at home.  I immediately cut back to one night a week out, bought a pressure cooker for rice and beans and a few other kitchen items, and cooked the remaining 6 nights in.  I also started bringing my lunch 4/5 days a week.  Savings:  $1000/mo.  As an added bonus, I learned how to cook a wide variety of meals — really fun.
  • I stopped making purchases — cd’s, electronics, video games.  I know that sounds overly simplistic, but it’s amazing how much money we spend just buying shit without thinking about it.  Instead, I adopted the 1-month rule.  If I wanted something, I would wait a month and see if I still wanted it.  If the item fell out of my head, I clearly didn’t need it.  Savings: At least $500/mo
  • I decided to move.  I was paying $1200/mo rent at this point (rent went up from $1100 the previous year.)  Plus utilities, plus cable.  Plus a gym membership which I almost never used.  In the new place, I dropped to $1000/mo, plus got free cable, plus free gym, plus free heat.   I even liked the neighborhood better.  Savings:  About $300/mo.

I could go on in this area, but I’ll stop because I’m sure you get the general idea.  

I shed $2000/mo of spending practically overnight.

It was clear to me that I didn’t need to spend this money nearly as much as I wanted to stop needing my job.

Somewhat paradoxically, reducing my spending increased my quality of life.  I ate healthier and started exercising again. I know it sounds counter intuitive to most folks, and I was surprised myself at the result, but there could be no doubt that spending less made me measurably happier.

I should point out that even after these changes, I still bought quite a bit of stuff.  Optimization is a continual and iterative process; it takes a while to get really good at it.  I have since made improvements every year and still I don’t closely approach the level of the leanest and meanest savers in the MMM and EEE communities.

Still, making these changes did wonders to improve my financial picture, and therefore also improved my sense of possibility in life itself.


Account Changes

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I learned a few basic lessons from reading Finance-101 style books during my week-long stint at the library.  The ones that applied to me most directly at the time were:

  • Immediately enroll in your employer sponsored 401(k).  If you are offered a match, invest enough to receive the full matching amount.  You should do this even if you have debt — mortgage, student loans, consumer debt, etc.  It doesn’t matter.  If you’re getting 100% match on pre-tax contributions, that beats any interest rate you’re paying on any obligation to any lender or government.  Period.  The only exception here is if you’re so broke that you’re missing payments on bills and this is impacting your credit score.  Obvious:  Don’t let your credit go to hell just because you want free money contributed to your 401(k) by your employer.
  • Pay off your debt.  Don’t let bundles of loans sit around.  Even in a so-called low-rate environment with percentages around 4, you’ll be paying a fortune in interest over the term.
  • Don’t hold cash.  At the very least, open a money market account instead and chase yield.
  • Vanguard is the shit. Open an account with them, like, immediately. Low expense ratios rule.

In addition to doing all of these things, because I had cut my cost of living nearly in half via reductions in spending, I no longer felt I needed such a large (30K) emergency buffer.  In the end I decided to carry about 12K in my money market, and I dumped the remaining 18K into my student loans, bringing my balance down from 40K to 22K in the blink of an eye.

Finally, although I had learned about IRAs, I wasn’t yet ready to open accounts.  My simplistic line of thinking was something along the lines of “Let me pay off my student loans first, and then I’ll start dumping cash in earnest into those accounts.”

Looking back, my approach wasn’t quite optimal, but hey, it sure beat what I’d been doing the year before and I forgive myself completely for not getting it all 100% perfect on the first go-around.  I mean, I’d just recently been a guy who was chucking large amounts of money into various dumpsters around the city for no apparent reason other than society had programmed him to do so.

At the very least, I’d become a guy who used perhaps half of what he earned to reduce debt and save.  So what if I hadn’t quite figured out how to make it grow yet?

That would come, in due time.

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8 Responses to The Job Experience, Tech Support: Year #4, Part 1

  1. Dwayne Hoover says:

    Oh man, you totally owned Mr. Data!!! I am loving this series 🙂

    • livingafi says:

      Hi Dwayne
      I will say that at the time, it didn’t feel like I owned him (Mr. Data) — In fact, going into that meeting I was pretty sure I was going to get fired on the spot. I wasn’t even super happy when I realized that things worked out — what I felt was much closer to simple relief. I’m very glad you’re getting a kick out of these posts.

  2. Wow, that was only year 4! I guess I was lucky to have significant variety in my projects for the first 4 years, I felt like I was just hanging on by my fingernails while I learned what the heck I was getting paid to be an expert at. Getting a PE license my 5th year helped coalesce my self confidence and I did something similar to what you describe the following year, after one of the most miserable years of my life. Middle finger lightsaber, I could definitely use one of those, mine was more of a slow steady wimpering until my manager finally confronted me and I felt like I had nothing to lose (except a job I could barely drag myself to). Looking forward to Year 5!

    • livingafi says:

      Hi EV
      Yep, only Year 4 and it’s still not over. I had to split it into parts because it’s so unbelievably long. I know what you mean about hanging on by your fingernails — that’s how I felt year 1 and 2 for sure, before I started making real improvements in skill levels and efficiency. It takes time. Glad you corrected your own Year 3 issue. When work is THAT bad, it colors every aspect of your existence and feels like there’s no escape. And of course there IS an escape but when things are going that poorly you’re usually blind to the solution.

  3. I generally agree with you on the alcohol. I keep trying to find a balance but I’m not sure there is one. Whatever it is, I’ve definitely been consuming too much the past couple weeks.

    My version of the job experience would be terribly boring reading, but this is entertaining and enlightening, so keep it up 🙂 I imagine it’s cathartic for you as well.

    • livingafi says:

      re: Vitamin A. I’ve come to the conclusion that some people can find balance and some people can’t. Personally I’m not so good at it and my life runs better when I stay away. But GC, listen, I’d love to read job experience posts from you or anyone else. I find this stuff incredibly interesting — even when it’s not. Such large chunks of the human experience are invested in jobs, even kind of boring ones, and I feel there’s always value in learning what life is like for other people. BTW, just finished up Year 4 and pub’d it.

  4. Bank says:

    I quit a job in year 4 of my career, walking away from more money than I had ever expected to make in my life because I couldn’t get along with a new manager (immediate cause) and because the amoral nature of my position became impossible to square with my values (underlying cause). It makes a great story now, but at the time I thought I was going to throw up from the stress and cry from the relief.

    Really loving this blog. I have spent far too much of my workday following your progress. Keep up the great work.

  5. StockBeard says:

    Woohoo! I’m reading this series like I’m watching some sort of very cool TV show, totally awesome that you stuck it to Mr. Data 🙂

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